Politeness in Japan: How to Greet, Apologize, and Say Thank You
Politeness in Japan is an essential part of daily life. If you want to travel or live in Japan without feeling awkward, learning how to greet, apologize, and say thank you is crucial.
Here is a simple and practical guide to understanding the key gestures and phrases for Japanese politeness.
1️⃣ Greeting in Japan
Greetings are very important in Japanese culture, with specific phrases for different times of the day:
- おはようございます [ohayou gozaimasu]: Good morning.
- こんにちは [konnichiwa]: Hello / Good afternoon.
- こんばんは [konbanwa]: Good evening.
Greetings are often accompanied by a bow (ojigi). The deeper the bow, the more respect it shows. A small nod is enough with friends, but in formal situations (stores, work), a deeper bow is appreciated.
2️⃣ Apologizing in Japan
Apologizing frequently, even for small things, is part of daily life in Japan. Here are some useful phrases:
- すみません [sumimasen]: Excuse me / Sorry (also used to get attention).
- ごめんなさい [gomen nasai]: I’m sorry.
- 失礼します [shitsurei shimasu]: Excuse my interruption (used before entering a room or leaving).
Apologizing quickly and politely is seen as a sign of respect and humility in Japan.
3️⃣ Saying Thank You in Japan
Expressing gratitude is another pillar of politeness in Japan:
- ありがとうございます [arigatou gozaimasu]: Thank you very much (formal).
- ありがとう [arigatou]: Thank you (informal).
- どうもありがとうございます [doumo arigatou gozaimasu]: Thank you very much (even more polite).
It’s common to say thank you after receiving a service, after a meal, or when someone helps you.
🌸 Why respect politeness in Japan?
Respecting politeness in Japan will help you:
- Create positive interactions with locals.
- Show your respect for Japanese culture.
- Avoid awkward moments and feel more confident during your trip or daily life in Japan.
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